secret clue = observation
Is it possible? Could it really be true? Yes, you really CAN read your mate. You can know things about him or her that they may never tell you. You can do all of this without them knowing it. There are things you can observe about your mate that can be very revealing. If you are meeting someone for the first time we've got a secret clue to help you decide whether you will like the REAL them! It comes down to one word: observation.
is your partner Bored by Details?
Does your mate detest details? If the answer is "yes", here's what it means: "I get bored very easily and need a lot of stimulation in my life. I live in the extremes. Often times, I will focus more on what I want than what others want or need. I don't always listen to what others are saying because I either don't find it interesting, useful, or I am excited that I get to talk when they stop talking! Don't tell me anything that I don't need to know right now because there is a lot of stuff going on in my head and I don't have room for information that won't benefit me immediately. I'm also great at starting projects, but may become bored and have little, if any, interest in finishing them. I am NOT a perfectionist and believe in quantity, not quality. If it is "good enough" I will be satisfied and move on. I like for people to look up to me and love public recognition. In fact, please notice how I dress, my car, and anything else fabulous about me because I love status symbols and prefer to dress in name brand clothes. I have trouble accepting the ideas of others and may get offended if you try to tell me how to do something! I also get embarrassed when you disagree with what I say in public. There are some great things about me too. I am multi-tasked and can get things done quickly. I fit in easily in new situations and am comfortable talking with people I don't know. I'm also an outgoing and confident person who loves new experiences." Wow, that was a lot to learn just from your mate having an aversion to details.
does your mate love details?
Okay, let's try the opposite side of the coin. Does your mate love details? Here is what that really means: " I am a slow starter, but a great finisher. I prefer to work on one project at a time and I will do my best. It is all about quality, not quantity. I will go much slower, but it will be done right! Reliability is my middle name and if I tell you I'm going to get something done, you will be able to count on me to do it. Please tell me everything that you know, even if you don't think it is important. If I don't need to know it now - I may need to know it later. I will still ask plenty of questions once you think you have told me everything. I don't like to spend money and am very thrifty in nature. I want the best product for the lowest price. Family is important to me and I want to make sure they are taken care of. I like to follow rules and may want to review them before we proceed with a task. After all, they are there for a reason. I am not a very outgoing person so please don't take it personally if I do not feel like doing things that take me outside my comfort zone." Again, so much to know that they aren't telling you!