Q. My long time ex-boyfriend just got engaged to a super hot girl and I feel oddly bad about myself because of that?
-Jenny
A. Jenny, you should feel awesome about this, it is an ego stroke for you. This guy obviously values hotness. He was with you for a significant amount of time so he MUST have valued you for your hotness. I’m willing to bet you broke up with him because he wanted different things than you (maybe he wanted you to stay home and have kids and you wanted to keep climbing the career ladder). If you did indeed do the breaking up then you should be even MORE complimented because he likely would have gone on valuing your hotness until he proposed to you.
So what about if your ex is dating someone less hot than you? HeadDrama's "My Gay Best Friend" gives his opinion. Click over for the article.
