Why are some men so controlling? | Love & Sex

gee. I would really like for someone to explain to me why my boyfriend is so controlling.

Mainly over:

~What time I go to bed.

~Who I talk to on the phone.

~Blocking friends from my FaceBook account.

~When he's home I have to give him 110% of my attention. And

~If I even show a hint of the fact that I am un-happy, he asks like a 2yr. old. First he'll be mean and yell and say horrible things, then once he doesn't get a reaction from me, HE CRYS! and begs me to forgive him. I do, of course, but the emotional damage has already been done.

Am I the only girl who needs TIME after an arguement. I wasn't made to simply forget. When someone tells you that they hate you, is it okay for him expect you to even want to be remotely close to him the next day? Or to want me to lay in bed as if everything is okay, when inside my mind is wondering a thousand thoughts and my heart is feeling a million doubts.