Women complain about their sex lives all the time. Granted, sometimes it’s just that they’re just too tired to have one, period. But, that’s not always the case. We women want ‘it’, too. Am I right?
So, if you’re a little grouchy because things have cooled off lately between the sheets, think about what YOUR role is in turning up the heat. Yes, it’s not fair to leave it up to your partner to initiate all the time.
We turned to renowned sex expert and family therapist Dr. Jane Greer. She says women COMMONLY make THREE MISTAKES in the bedroom:
MISTAKE #1: COMFY CLOTHES
I know that you want to be in those comfortable jammies that you wear, but honestly, the quickest turn-off to your partner or spouse is your comfy clothes. So, if you want to spice things up in your love life, shed those comfy clothes and put on a sexy bra or nightie; something you can be slinky, sensuous and comfortable in that will be a TURN-ON to your partner.
MISTAKE #2: NOT TAKING THE LEAD
Don’t wait to get asked to dance…meaning you’ve got to take the lead. You don’t have to wait for your partner to ask you to have sex or make love with them. Get involved, get into bed, take the lead and get your partner into bed with you. You’ll both have a lot of fun and enjoy yourselves.
MISTAKE #3: CRITICISM
It’s to be avoided at all costs. Nothing will turn off your partner faster than you telling him what you DON’T like and what you don’t want taking place. On the other hand, what will be a complete arousal and turn-on is letting him know what he CAN do to please you and what will excite you if he does it.
So, tell him what you like, wear those sexy clothes and, most importantly of all, take the lead so that you can have the fun you really want.